Family, Marriage, Women in Ministry

Refreshing comments from an old commentary on Genesis 1-3

Enough Light

In a recent post, I mentioned I read through a commentary of Genesis by Derek Kidner in the Tyndale OT series. It is copyright from 1967. The point in noting its older date, is that I was surprised (pleasantly) by some egalitarian or progressive thoughts on the opening chapters of Genesis.

In the introduction Kidner states, in regards to the Fall:

“The shattering of the harmony of man and wife, not by any mutual disagreement but by their agreeing together against God, proved at once how dependent it had been on His [God’s] unseen participation. Without Him, love would henceforth be imperfect, and marriage would gravitate towards the sub-personal relationship foreshadowed in the terms ‘desire’ and ‘rule.'”

Kidner goes on to say that the rest of Genesis confirms this tendency. “Polygamy is partly to blame for this, but polygamy is itself the symptom of an unbalanced view of marriage, which…

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Marriage

Husbands, Submit To Your Wives!

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Leadership, Real Church, The Body of Christ, Unity

Church Leadership through Consensus

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Leadership, Real Church

No Rank, only Roles in the Body of Christ

Leadership is determined by the extent you influence regardless of rank. And, contrary to how most local churches and denominations have been structured and governed, the New Testament church did not use or require hierarchy when it came to leadership. The elders, whether apostles, prophets, evangelists or pastors and teachers, had no rank in the… Continue reading No Rank, only Roles in the Body of Christ

Marriage

Equality in Marriage – 2

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Marriage

Equality in Marriage – 1

Why is it that there are so many messages on the subject of godly women submitting to their husbands and husbands being the spiritual head of the home? Is it because this message is so hard to swallow that we need to keep being reminded of it? I think if we had half a chance… Continue reading Equality in Marriage – 1

Leadership, Real Church

Hierarchical Leadership – The Main Hindrance in the Body of Christ Part 5

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Leadership, Real Church

Hierarchical Leadership – The Main Hindrance in the Body of Christ Part 3

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Leadership, Real Church

Who Calls the Shots (Decision Making) in the Body of Christ?

I really can't believe, nor see it written, that the Lord would have left His deity, become a man, suffer as much as He did and die for us only to give the running of the church into the hands of a few decision makers who could get it right or wrong. Just imagine, "Oops,… Continue reading Who Calls the Shots (Decision Making) in the Body of Christ?

Leadership, Real Church

Rank or Respect

These are my comments taken from LinkedIn XPastor Group in answer to "How much control should the Senior Pastor have? Other than God, should the pastor be answerable to anyone?" Personally, I believe that single pastor and pastor/board leadership cannot be justified biblically and I’m afraid that the longer we persist with this paradigm the longer… Continue reading Rank or Respect